“We were both very stubborn and would go two or three days without talking after an argument. In our last couple disagreements I was actually the first person to come and say something, which never happened before.

I feel like our communication is a lot easier now. It’s nice to take a moment and figure out where the anger or sadness is coming from instead of blaming each other. It really takes the shame away. The whole experience has been eye opening and a beautiful experience.

Whenever I look at Roger, honestly I just smile. I’ll tell you something, the whole process, not only has it been easy, but enlightening, game changing…and eye opening.”

“During our Ontodelic sessions, Roger’s guidance was timely, inviting me deeper into my unfolding experience. He was present, listening carefully and guiding me in a gentle, non-intrusive way. I felt like he really got me, got where I was, and offered ways to go deeper. Having such a confident and sensitive guide as I moved through difficult material was invaluable.

Over the last four months, I’ve felt myself unfolding into greater depth. I’m enjoying a deeper sense of belonging: in my life, with my work, with my wife. I’m experiencing a greater sense of being seen for who I am, and finding more room to contribute my gifts freely.

This is very powerful work, and to step in with confidence you need a guide you can trust deeply. Roger is experienced, confident, sensitive, and trustworthy. Highly recommended.”

“Over the past six months, our relationship has shifted dramatically. It’s a lot better than it was before, where we wouldn’t have listened to each other as much and things would turn into blowouts. Now we’re able to catch things midstream and shift them, which takes more intention, but leads to real resolution and integration instead of brushing things under the carpet. We’ve really learned to use the tools we have, and that process has helped us grow ourselves in a focused and laser-intense way, facing ourselves and meeting each other from that place. We even created a shared mythos for our relationship — ‘Fire and Water Making Steam’ and ‘Grow in Ourselves and Grow in Love’ — because we feel like we’re truly growing in ourselves and then growing in love, expanding our beings and integrating past experiences into something richer together.

After 20 years of raising a child, it feels freeing to rediscover who we are as a couple and to learn what that means for each of us now. Through this work, we’ve experienced what it’s like to let layers be pulled aside so more energy can flow, to feel like an empty bowl with capacity, and to take up space fully while also appreciating the journey instead of rushing toward a destination. I’ve realized that the step I’m on right now is important, and I can expand while being present, letting the next step come when it’s ready. Overall, the enrichment from doing this work is priceless. It’s the gold that feeds your soul, and it’s worth the angst and contraction because it leads to expansion, depth, and becoming the best version of ourselves.”