THE ROSE & THE FLAME
Six months of deep inner alchemy, unfolding a new chapter of your authentic becoming
Are you feeling stuck or confused in your relationships, emotions, spirituality, or professional development?
Are you feeling trapped in loops of patterns, thoughts, habits, behaviors, or relational dynamics, despite numerous attempts at change?
Have you invested lots and lots of time, $ and energy on therapy, retreats, and trainings, yet lack confidence in your capacities to serve?
Are you experiencing some momentum in your life, but questioning the purpose of your endeavors?
Are you holding space for others but longing to be held and witnessed as you are on the brink of your own evolution?
Are you feeling a greater calling, yet uncertain about its specifics?
Hi, I’m Roger
I mentor inspired souls who are standing at a palpable threshold, where the old orientation no longer holds the way it used to, and the new one hasn’t fully arrived yet.
They feel a deep longing to step through the veils of who they are becoming, to strengthen their authentic inner relationship, voice, alignment and authorship. In this way, the outer choices and relationships mirror more and more a new inner clarity, self-love and coherence.
Together, in an atmosphere of self-compassion and curiosity, we initiate an unfolding awareness of the unconscious, and a re-patterning with new dynamics of authenticity, wisdom, love, and the joy of increasing alignment.
Step into the life your deeper knowing has been guiding you toward in quiet, steady ways. The one where your gifts are liberated from the unconscious fears and inherited patterns that held them back.
Choose 1-3 of the following domains for your mentorship
☬Emotional empowerment
Overcome self-sabotage, develop emotional intelligence, gaining wisdom and a grounded, centered presence.
☬ Stepping into your greater calling
Align with your heart's truth, clarify your calling and purpose, excavate resources, unravel doubts and subconscious blocks, and find lasting passion in your unfolding.
☬ Psyche self mastery
Master your mind, emotions & subconscious so you can skillfully guide your life and communicate from wisdom.
☬ Opening your intuitive gifts
Step into your power, awakening your whole being for heightened self-awareness.
☬ Deep healing
Liberate old patterns and stagnancies from this lifetime, ancestors, and past experiences.
☬ Birthing a creative project
Opening + allowing your creative gifts, leading with authenticity, integrity & grace.
☬ Preparing for your next level relationship
Expand your capacities to relate + communicate, to become more accessible and responsive, navigate conflict, and mutually meet each other's needs at a new level.
☬ Upleveling yourself in your current relationship
Transform relationships, 10x intimacy, and enter the next stage of personal development.
☬ Maturing in your embodiment to serve
Cultivate confidence, trust instincts, and adopt new awakened habits and practices that will change your life and your capacities.
Across mystical traditions: Sufi, Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Alchemical + Rosicrucian,
the rose endures as a shared symbol of the
human heart and a map of the soul unfolding through embodied truth.
The rose names something universal:
the courage to open, the sensitive power at the core
of our wounds, the thorn’s wisdom of discernment, and how
what’s most essential in us unfolds deeply in the heart.
In the final stage of Alchemy – the Rubedo – the heart
opens like a rose to reveal a fountain of Light which overflows
with Love and Compassion towards all living beings.
“And the fire and the rose are one.”
— T.S. Eliot
THE ROSE & THE FLAME
8-STAGE FRAMEWORK:
A Dynamic Curriculum for your custom journey.
This cycle unfolds in repeated mini-cycles (within sessions) and
meta-cycles (as the session arc) throughout your 6 months.
1. OPENING CEREMONY — Seeding your intentions for the journey ahead.
We begin by discerning the contours, goals, and context of your path.
Through an opening ceremony, we guide you into the transformative journey, providing support and direction.
2. DISCOVERING YOUR ROOTS —Growing down to grow up. Heal your foundations.
Delving into the subconscious, we explore the watery, fiery depths of your shadow—the suppressed, denied, and judged aspects.
Reclaiming power, acknowledging unmet needs, and meeting your hidden gifts.
Heal and reunite with missing experiences.
3. MAPPING THE TERRITORY —End of blocks. The rise of your self-awareness.
Embarking on a subconscious exploration, we uncover profound revelations about hidden driving forces in your life.
Tracing these patterns in the body, in the present moment, we will understand the exact ways your history has been influencing you in your daily life.
Between session one & four, you will receive an included True Will Reading with Brian Moon (more on this below), and we will integrate these discoveries.
4. EMERGENCE —Grow the branches of your truth and insight.
New ideas, insights, and paradigms emerge. We will expand and anchor these new insights as they happen.
We will explore new ways of being that contrast with past habits.
And in this way, we will hone your authentic path, concretizing insights into skillsets, visions, and strategies.
At key moments, we may deepen + embody the process with customised psychomagic homework, art, or rituals.
5. SKILLSETS + PSYCHO-EDUCATION —Stack your toolbox for flow + freedom
Depending on your chosen areas to focus on, I will provide different skillset training + psycho-education.
How to meet the missing experience of your core pattern in daily life.
Learning how to identify your needs and those of others.
How to disidentify with the inner critic and deeply ingrained voices and habits.
How to communicate responsively and on many levels with the people that you love.
How to connect with people and lead in your work in new emotionally skillful ways.
6. RE-CONDITIONING— The end of an era. The unfolding of a new timeline.
Discovering past patterns, we disconnect old limitations and associate well-being with new patterns.
Becoming pattern designers, we rewire and condition in empowering beliefs aligned with your life vision.
7. HARVEST — The celebrated time to integrate.
Approaching the journey's culmination, we weave together insights about self and the world.
We will review, celebrate and affirm the core insights, shifts, and identities.
Review how you will share your voice and authentic experience with others.
Integration occurs on the second-to-last call (session 11) with you, me, and Amanda.
8. RESURGENCE— Honor your inborn destiny
Become a confident ambassador of your gifts.
Design your 'What's Next?' plan.
The final session is a sacred rite, a customised ritual marking your passage, shedding the old and embracing your new identity.
“Roger has a great intuition. You just know that he’s gone through this stuff himself.
I used to carry this deep exhaustion that could take months to recover from. Now my system resets within days, even after intense stress. It’s been almost two years, and that change has stayed with me.”
— N. Schrimpf“I cannot describe actually how impactful our last meeting was. Immediately, we were able to resolve that issue and just move past it and be very loving and understanding. It's been, like the best weekend of both our lives. Incredible. It’s been life changing. Our communication has already changed so much.”
— L. & C. (couple)“I’ve realized that the step I’m on right now is important, and I can expand while being present. Overall, the enrichment from doing this work is priceless. It’s the gold that feeds your soul, and it’s worth the angst and contraction because it leads to expansion, depth, and becoming the best version of ourselves.”
— J. Page
WHAT’S INCLUDED?
SIX MONTHS OF SOUL-DEEP ALCHEMICAL COACHING AND SUPPORT
Rooting in to branch out
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✧ 12 X 75-90 MINUTE PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS (TWICE A MONTH)
Through Ontodelic Inquiry™ practices, guided journeys, and a diverse array of embodiment approaches, I will support you over the course of these 6 months to take your chosen domains to a new level. Each session will be experiential, expansive and sometimes mystical, as well as grounded, practical and transformational.
✧ RESOURCES + GUIDED ACTIVITIES
After each session you will receive a transcription and recording of your session, including soul guidance received, as well as resource materials, guided journeys, and recommended practices to strengthen your intuition and tap into your guidance in between sessions.
✧ WEEKLY SUPORT
We will have mini check-ins via text or voice note for the duration of your program.This is an open door to further support in between sessions, and is especially useful to get guidance, ask questions, or check in on major in-the-moment insights to focus & catalyze inner reflection, growth and self-realization.
✧ ENERGY WORK + INTUITIVE GUIDANCE
with Amanda Holhstein, @Divine Heart Communication. Amanda works with the body’s energy consciousness system to illuminate what’s unseen, clear what’s stuck, and restore the flow of life force. Her integrative approach invites clients into greater coherence, purpose, and inner freedom. You'll meet with Amanda between sessions 5-8.
Amanda will also be present on your 11th session, the Harvest, to retro-prospect your journey, support in bringing home all the gold you've gained, and celebrate where you are and where you are going.
✧ACCESS TO MY OWN PERSONAL TOOLS, PRACTICES AND INTUITIVE METHODS
I’ll be teaching you my own personal techniques for tuning in, communication, relationship, and the specific tools and techniques I have used in my professional career as an intuitive guide over the last decade. You won’t find what I teach you anywhere else.