Work Together
A MENTORSHIP ARC TO
TEACH YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A LARGER SELF, A LARGER WORLD.
IN A FIELD OF SELF-DISCOVERY
A SAFE BRAVE DOJO FOR NERVOUS SYSTEM DEVELOPMENT
+ CONSCIOUSNESS EVOLUTION
Are you finding yourself at the edge of a new chapter, sensing that the way you’ve been living can no longer contain what is trying to emerge?
Do you find yourself returning to familiar patterns in relationships, work, emotional life, or your inner world—even though you’ve spent considerable time understanding them?
Have you invested lots and lots of time, $ and energy on therapy, retreats, and trainings, yet lack confidence in your capacities to serve?
Perhaps things are moving forward in your life, yet you find yourself internally questioning whether what you’re building is truly what you want.
Are you often the one holding space for others, while longing for a space where you can set that role down, and be met, supported, and deeply accompanied in your own next evolution?
Do you feel a greater calling or possibility stirring in your life, something meaningful wanting to emerge… yet the shape has not fully revealed itself?
Hello,
I’m Roger.
I know from my own journey, whether it’s work or calling or relationships or health, that life has a way of peeling back the layers, not just on the beautiful parts of us but it also pulls back the curtain on the things we’ve hidden, even from ourselves.
These moments of revelation call us into a deeper relationship with who we are becoming. And the work doesn’t have to be scary or a burdensome drudgery. Even the deepest process can be held in an atmosphere of wonder, fascination, fun, tenderness or discovery.
I mentor inspired souls who are between worlds and who feel a deep longing to initiate themselves into this next chapter of their becoming, to discover what’s possible in their journey, and to embody their gifts more fully, making more of their humanity available.
We don’t begin from zero. Each of us is living inside an inherited pattern, carrying the unlived life of our parents, culture, and those who came before us.
This is a multi-generational journey, and it asks us to be real and honest, because the greatest problems of life can’t be solved.
They are outgrown through us.
Choose 1-3 of the following domains for your mentorship
☬Emotional empowerment
Overcome self-sabotage, develop emotional intelligence, gaining wisdom and a grounded, centered presence.
☬ Stepping into your greater calling
Align with your heart's truth, clarify your calling and purpose, excavate resources, unravel doubts and subconscious blocks, and find lasting passion in your unfolding.
☬ Psyche self mastery
Master your mind, emotions & subconscious so you can skillfully guide your life and communicate from wisdom.
☬ Opening your intuitive gifts
Step into your power, awakening your whole being for heightened self-awareness.
☬ Deep healing
Liberate old patterns and stagnancies from this lifetime, ancestors, and past experiences.
☬ Birthing a creative project
Opening + allowing your creative gifts, leading with authenticity, integrity & grace.
☬ Preparing for your next level relationship
Expand your capacities to relate + communicate, to become more accessible and responsive, navigate conflict, and mutually meet each other's needs at a new level.
☬ Upleveling yourself in your current relationship
Transform relationships, 10x intimacy, and enter the next stage of personal development.
☬ Maturing in your embodiment to serve
Cultivate confidence, trust instincts, and adopt new awakened habits and practices that will change your life and your capacities.
A DIFFERENT KIND OF DEVELOPMENT
Insight > embodied capacity >
consciousness evolution
Advances in neuroscience and recent clinical research have helped us zero in on the key therapeutic mechanisms for how the brain and nervous system learn, adapt, and change.
We now know that the patterns shaping our lives are more malleable than we once thought.
Profound life-changing shifts don’t have to be unpredictable rarities that only emerge after years of insight, therapy, or effort.
Under the right conditions, the nervous system learns new patterns, sometimes with surprising speed that researchers have described as ‘extreme therapeutic effectiveness.’
The mentorship is designed around this work.
In 6 months of conventional therapy, you may encounter only a handful of moments when an old pattern is genuinely updated in the nervous system. In Ontodelic Inquiry, we intentionally create these moments, using specific methods to recruit the nervous system’s natural chemistry for heightened learning and plasticity, which clients often say feels like ‘psychedelics without psychedelics.’ Sessions, at times, become profound and disorienting. Time loosens. Material surfaces that had been out of reach for years.
We sloooow things down and work with ‘experiments’ in mindfulness…in the body, in relationship, touching emotions with histories, voices, and memories that emerge in the moment - and in this heightened state, we create new experiences for the nervous system to optimally learn from.
Things that felt inaccessible, now feel naturally at hand. Your repertoire expands. Your nervous system & psyche learns a larger world, a more full life.
This affects:
decision making, creativity, visibility, our unconscious definition of love, leadership, communication, trust, emotional resilience, intimacy, capacity, relationships, health, receiving support, consistency, authenticity, harnessing power, new social freedoms, et al.
The question shifts from “Why am I like this?” to “What can I do now that I couldn’t do before?”
MENTORSHIP ARC
8-STAGE FRAMEWORK:
A Dynamic Curriculum for your custom journey.
This cycle unfolds in repeated mini-cycles (within sessions) and
meta-cycles (as the session arc) throughout your 6 months.
1. OPENING CEREMONY — Seeding your intentions for the journey ahead.
We begin by discerning the contours, goals, and context of your path.
Through an opening ceremony, we guide you into the transformative journey, providing support and direction.
2. DISCOVERING YOUR ROOTS —Growing down to grow up. Heal your foundations.
Delving into the subconscious, we explore the watery, fiery depths of your shadow—the suppressed, denied, and judged aspects.
Reclaiming power, acknowledging unmet needs, and meeting your hidden gifts.
Heal and reunite with missing experiences.
3. MAPPING THE TERRITORY —End of blocks. The rise of your self-awareness.
Embarking on a subconscious exploration, we uncover profound revelations about hidden driving forces in your life.
Tracing these patterns in the body, in the present moment, we will understand the exact ways your history has been influencing you in your daily life.
Between session one & four, you will receive an included True Will Reading with Brian Moon (more on this below), and we will integrate these discoveries.
4. EMERGENCE —Grow the branches of your truth and insight.
New ideas, insights, and paradigms emerge. We will expand and anchor these new insights as they happen.
We will explore new ways of being that contrast with past habits.
And in this way, we will hone your authentic path, concretizing insights into skillsets, visions, and strategies.
At key moments, we may deepen + embody the process with customised psychomagic homework, art, or rituals.
5. SKILLSETS + PSYCHO-EDUCATION —Stack your toolbox for flow + freedom
Depending on your chosen areas to focus on, I will provide different skillset training + psycho-education.
How to meet the missing experience of your core pattern in daily life.
Learning how to identify your needs and those of others.
How to increase the intelligence of your YES and your NO, boundary and intimacy.
How to disidentify with the inner critic and deeply ingrained voices and habits.
How to communicate responsively and on many levels with the people that you love.
How to connect with people and lead in your work in new emotionally skillful ways.
6. RE-CONDITIONING— The end of an era. The unfolding of a new timeline.
Discovering past patterns, we disconnect old limitations and associate well-being with new patterns.
Becoming pattern designers, we rewire and condition in empowering developmentally-mature patterns into the nervous system that are effectively aligned with your life vision.
7. HARVEST — The celebrated time to integrate.
Approaching the journey's culmination, we weave together insights about self and the world.
We will review, celebrate and affirm the core insights, shifts, and identities.
Review how you will share your voice and authentic experience with others.
Integration occurs on the second-to-last call (session 11) with you, me, and Amanda.
8. RESURGENCE— Honor your inborn destiny
Become a confident ambassador of your gifts.
Design your 'What's Next?' plan.
The final session is a sacred rite, a customised ritual marking your passage, shedding the old and embracing your new identity.
A LARGER FIELD OF POSSIBILITY
Opening to expanded states of consciousness in the service of your development
This work is rooted in neuroscience, somatics, and depth psychology, while also making room for capacities that belong to older human traditions: intention, prayer, ritual and psychomagic, descending light, and expanded states of consciousness.
In the mentorship, these are employed experientially through the body, not ideologically.
Mystical-type states are potent resources for supporting your development: opening new dimensions of perception, relationship, meaning, intuition, and embodied experience.
In Ontodelic Inquiry, we see the experience of energetics and expanded states as part of any adequate clinical work for human potential. These experiences are measurable and mappable, carrying their own somatic signatures and therapeutic capacity independent of religious framing.
In psychological alchemy, popularized by Carl Jung, ‘Rubedo’ represents the final phase of human development. It signifies the integration of the conscious and unconscious mind, emotional balance, and incarnating the unity of the Self into human form.
“To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand
And eternity in an hour…
God appears and God is light
To those poor souls who dwell in night,
But does a human form display
To those who dwell in realms of day.”
— William Blake
The mentorship opens a larger field of possibility: a space to explore the opening of the spiritual heart — to experience it as a flame of light, a boundless field of attunement and connection, alive with intuition. You may discover capacities for receptivity and presence that feel larger than the ordinary self - exploring what it means to host the current of infinity.
“And the fire and the rose are one.”
— T.S. Eliot
“Roger has a great intuition. You just know that he’s gone through this stuff himself.
I used to carry this deep exhaustion that could take months to recover from. Now my system resets within days, even after intense stress. It’s been almost two years, and that change has stayed with me.”
— N. Schrimpf“I cannot describe actually how impactful our last meeting was. Immediately, I was able to resolve that issue and just move past it and be very loving and understanding. It's been, like the best weekend of both our lives. Incredible. It’s been life changing. Our communication has already changed so much.”
— C. Gomez“Over the last four months, I've felt myself unfolding into greater depth. I'm enjoying a deeper sense of belonging: in my life, with my work, with my wife… I’m experiencing a greater sense of being seen for who I am, and finding more room to contribute my gifts freely.
This is very powerful work.”
— Michael H. C.
“[Roger] helped me completely transform myself, cultivating what I most deeply desire in my life. With deep intuition and a loving heart, Roger creates a comfortable, compassionate space for difficulties stored in the body to be felt, seen and transmuted.
He brings a discerning clarity, inspiring courage for me to confront challenges at their root. I am eternally grateful for the self-discovery of Roger’s counsel.”
— Devin Lafferty, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ATR-P
A SAFE BRAVE DOJO
FOR NERVOUS SYSTEM INTEGRATION
Our psyche is fundamentally relational: we are born in relationship, wounded in relationship, and heal in relationship.
I am your friendly skilled training partner, fostering a sense of safety and bravery in the healing relationship.
Together, we bring attention to the subtle movements of your experience.
We create enough safety for exploration and introduce enough challenges at the edge of capacity, for development to happen.
We notice what your system automatically does.
We invite curiosity where there was judgment; experimentation where there was habit; and choice where there was compulsion.
A dojo implies:
It’s a safe space, a brave space, and a dynamic space
Safe enough to heal and feel new experiences of care, receiving, play, and well-being.
Brave enough to meet deeper layers and integrate them.
Dynamic enough to expand your repertoire.
You encounter activation and visceral charge, and we meet those experiences with skillful compassion and care and insight.
We build the future by weaving new mature embodiment into the nervous system.
“I believe that the Earth is the most likely place for love to flourish. We are surrounded by life and beauty, and we have the capacity to experience deep connection and intimacy. Of course, there will always be challenges and difficulties, but I believe that the rewards of love far outweigh the risks.”
― Ron Kurtz
WHAT’S INCLUDED?
A SIX-MONTH JOURNEY & IMMERSION
SELF-DISCOVERY, DEEP CHANGE, ONGOING SUPPORT,
INTEGRATION, AND EXPANSION
Rooting in to branch out
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✧ 12 X 75-90 MINUTE PRIVATE ONTODELIC SESSIONS (TWICE A MONTH)
Through Ontodelic Inquiry™ practices, guided journeys, and a diverse array of embodiment approaches, I will support you over the course of these 6 months to take your chosen domains to a new level. Each session will be experiential, expansive and sometimes mystical, as well as grounded, practical and transformational.
✧ RESOURCES + GUIDED ACTIVITIES
After each session you will receive a transcription and recording of your session, including a SYNAPSE, a detailed written synopsis with insights and integrations that clients love. In addition, you receive a recommended psychomagic ritual to carry the core insights of the session powerfully into the rest of the waking dream. You’ll receive a variety of resource materials, including your LIVING LIBRARY, many of the books, practices, teachings, and resources I return to most.
✧ WEEKLY SUPORT
We will have mini check-ins via text or voice note for the duration of your program.This is an open door to further support in between sessions, and is especially useful to get guidance, ask questions, or check in on major in-the-moment insights to focus & catalyze inner reflection, growth and self-realization.
✧ ENERGY WORK + INTUITIVE GUIDANCE
with Amanda Holhstein, @Divine Heart Communication. Amanda works with the body’s energy consciousness system to illuminate what’s unseen, clear what’s stuck, and restore the flow of life force. Her integrative approach invites clients into greater coherence, purpose, and inner freedom. You'll meet with Amanda three times: around session 4, around session 7, and she’ll be present on your 11th session, the Harvest, to retro-prospect your journey, support in bringing home all the gold you've gained, and celebrating where you are and where you are going.
✧ACCESS TO MY OWN PERSONAL TOOLS, PRACTICES AND INTUITIVE METHODS
I’ll be teaching you my own personal techniques for tuning in, communication, relationship, and the specific tools and techniques I have used in my professional career as an intuitive guide over the last decade. You won’t find what I teach you anywhere else.
In the practice of Ontodelic Inquiry, you will access a somatic depth and transformative power unlike any other.
There’s a curiosity, care, and interest in what’s alive for you, your current process and the subtle + large movements of your life and soul.
Harness the past for a new future.